Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Life's Ups and Downs...

Abby has been wearing glasses for a very long time. I think she got her first pair when she was in preschool around the age of 4. She was diagnosed with a severe case of astigmatism. Now that she's soon-to-be 14, she's expressed interest in wanting to try contacts. Well, this all started about a month or so ago. She's tried about 4 or 5 different pairs of contacts, but none of them have worked. The last pair fit perfectly and were stable, meaning they didn't move around on her eyes. However, her vision would be fine one minute and go blurry the next. Her eye doctor told us she's never seen anything like it before. She said it might mean one thing if she was having the same issue with her glasses, but she sees just fine with them. She said she's tried nearly every matrix out there to find the right contacts for her, but we haven't had any luck. She told me yesterday that she was going to send out an e-mail to some of her friends who are, also, eye doctors to find out if they have any other suggestions. I just wish it was an easy fix so that Abby could have a pair of contacts to use if she'd like a change from her glasses. Hopefully, we'll hear some encouraging news from her doctor by the end of the week. Isn't she a cutie?


Brittany is continuing to adjust to college life. She's so sweet to call me just about everyday, and you have no idea how wonderful it is to hear her voice! I do think she's getting a little stressed out. She has to run every morning at 6 AM (8-10 miles), then goes directly to an ice bath. Yes...an ICE BATH! Brrrr! It helps the muscles recover quicker, but it sure sounds painful to me! Then, of course, she has classes and another workout in the afternoon. In the evenings, 4 days a week, she has study hall for the freshmen athletes from 7-8:15 PM and on Tuesdays, she has to attend a meeting for the athletes. She doesn't have much time to unwind. I try to remind her that she has my love and support and to try and find time each day for herself...even if it's only 30 mins. I know she'll find her way...just wish I could help her a little more than I'm able. It's a learning process for us both!

Our air conditioning upstairs has been out for a couple of days, but, lo and behold, our AC man came out today and fixed it! I felt like doing the "I've got COOL air, again!" HAPPY DANCE, but I refrained! :) Sure makes me appreciate one of life's little luxuries!



P.S. I forgot to mention that Abby was chosen for the select ensemble chorus group that she auditioned for...YIPEE!!! I'm so proud of her! Look out, Broadway...here she comes! :)
April
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13 comments:

Lindsay-ann said...

Hi April
That's such a cute picture of sweet Abby. I hope that your eye doctor can find some contacts for her soon. Jessica loves her contacts and wears them everyday like I do.
Now about Brittany having to go in that ice bath! No thank you! The running 8-10 miles sounds bad enough to me but the ice bath would be torture! Glad she is calling you regularly.
Lindsay
x

Mommy Mac said...

Man, Brittany has a tough schedule!

i sure hope she adjusts well.

Abby made it; YAY!

Fingers crossed on the contact selection and hunt.

.mac :)

p.s. "accept" is a beautiful word. Tough to swallow at times, but beautiful...the art of letting go. :)

Robin Beck said...

Congrats to Abby! How cool is that?!

I hope everything works out for her in the eye situation though-I was wondering if she got contacts because I noticed in some pictures she was wearing glasses and in others she wasn't. She sure is growing up~♥

Robin~♥

Darlene said...

Congratulations to Abby. I can see her and Lexi performing somewhere together someday.....lol. I do hope the Dr. comes up with a contact lens she can wear. I got glasses in the 3rd grade and contacts in the 5th. So I have worn contacts a long, long time. I know she would really enjoy them if they work.

College definitely sounds stressful. I hope Brittany CAN find time to unwind each day.

Blondie's Journal said...

Hooray for Abby! I really had my fingers crossed on this one. I know she likes to sing.

Brittany sounds busy, but rememeber. they have 10 times the energy we do! My Abby is working and going to school over 40 hours a week. She has little time for a social life but seems happy and not TOO tired!

I hope that they find contacts for Abby so that she has the option of contacts or glasses. It might matter to her further up the road.

xoxo
Janie

Denise said...

Congrats to Abby on making the chorus, great job. I pray she will be able to wear contacts if that is what she truly wants. Praying for dear Brittany to get used to all of the college adjustments, and mom too.

Anonymous said...

Awwwwwwwwwwww. Look at little Abby. She is cute as can be. I will pray the dr. Thinks of a solution.

Can not believe that running schedule. Oh.my.heart. an ice bath?? I will pray for her also.

My cousin Janice was a basketball player. She was very good. She quit her Senior year much to the chagrin of her coaches and teamates so she could just enjoy college. She said it was the best decision she ever made. She is a MD now and very happy. Sports is not everything!

michele said...

Brittany sounds SO busy!!
Abby is a cutie! I hope she finds some contacts that work well for her. My husband wears glasses and hasn't found contacts that fit him right either, but he hasn't tried now for probably close to ten years. I am sure they've come a long way. So fun to read your blog post!

Cyndy Bush said...

She is super cute with her glasses! But I hope they can figure something out for her, since that's what she wants.
ICE BATH? I would die!

Rebecca Jo said...

Ahhh - but she looks so cute in her glasses! I get it though - I wore glasses from kindergarden & then just refused to wear them in high school... but I've got to get back in them.. I cant see anymore! Not a good thing...

I bet an ice bath sounded pretty nice to you when your AC was off :)

Anonymous said...

Glad to hear Abby made the ensemble! I hope she's able to do something with contacts. Bryan can't wear them at all. His eyes turn blood red only a few minutes after getting them in. I have been wearing mine for 20 years and love them.

An ice bath??? That is crazy! There is no way. Brittany is a brave girl! Glad to hear that she's adjusting well.

Queenie Jeannie said...

I hope Abby can find an answer soon! I'd be soooo lost without my contacts!! Glasses are just a pain!

No a/c in the south is unthinkable! You poor wilted thing!!!! Do the happy Snoopy dance and DON'T restrain yourself, lol!

wife.mom.nurse said...

I am sorry that the contact lenses are not working out. My boy is wearing contacts and it means so much to him expecially now that he is in middle school.

Okay, ice baths...I cannot begin to imagine disciplining myself to even put my toe in.

Your Hawaiian adventure looks fabulous!

I have missed you so much. You are one of the reasons I keep coming back, despite busy times.

~Julie