Well, I think we're, finally, nearing the end of the questions I was asked. All of you have made it so much fun for me and I hope you've enjoyed getting to know me a little better.
My sweet friend, Amy, asked me several questions. Her first one was, "What beauty product do you use that is an absolute MUST HAVE? I'm going to cheat just a tiny bit because I have two. One is Eucerin Facial Moisturizer with an SPF of 30 that I wear under my makeup (or alone!) every single day. The other is John Frieda's Luxurious Volume Root Booster because without it, my hair falls FLAT, especially with all this Deep South humidity we have going on!
Next, she wanted to know, "What do you like to do to make your spouse's day easier? OK, when Chris walks in the door after being gone for 3 or 4 nights, I don't bombard him with all the "issues" I've had to deal with while he's been away. I give him time to sit down and unwind for awhile. Also, I pay all the bills so that's one thing he doesn't have to worry about. Lastly, since he's a runner, he loves for me to massage his feet and his back for him. I think it's the little things that mean the most.
Her last question made me really scratch my head. She asked, "Is there something you used to do as a child/teen that you would NEVER let your children do? At first, I have to admit, I drew a complete blank on this one! However, after much thought, I came up with an answer. When I was a kid, I used to love going exploring in the woods by myself...I'm talking deep into the woods. I loved the solace of being alone...it never bothered me. In fact, I'm still a lot like that to some degree. Maybe it's because my brothers were so much older than me and I had to find different ways to keep myself entertained. Unfortunately, we live in a very scary world anymore. Hardly a day goes by that you don't hear of a child getting abducted, murdered, or sexually assaulted. We live near Atlanta and, as with all metropolitan cities, crime runs rampant. So, I would never consider allowing my girls to venture into wooded areas alone or with friends. Call me old-fashioned or overprotective, but in my mind, it's just too risky. I never want to make a decision that I might live to regret. *Ironically, I wrote this answer last night before I heard the news...I feel stronger about it now more than ever!
These next couple of questions were asked by my sweet friend, Blonde Duck. Isn't that the greatest name? She wanted to know, "What's your favorite pie? Well, my mom was known for her amazing Coconut Cream pies. So, that is definitely my all-time favorite, but Mom's was the BEST! I would give anything if I'd learned how to make it from her!
She, also, wanted to know, "Are you scared of Queen Bitty? Ok, I'm assuming you're referring to Brittany, right? Well, if so, you'd better believe I'm afraid of that girl! No, I'm only kidding! She can definitely have her moments, but deep down inside, she's as good as gold! I wouldn't change one thing about her...except for the endless texting, maybe! :)
CHERISH YOUR CHILDREN!

24 comments:
Hi April-I just read your post from last night-that is a scary thing to have to explain to your child. My prayers are with the victims...that is horrible. I am always a little overparinoid about these things-and we are super careful who is with our kids...
Funny-I use to explore the woods surrounding our five acres as a tween and teen. That is something I don't think I would let my kids do today as well-
You've got taking care of your husband down pat! No wonder Chris is smiling.
Hi April
I enjoyed your answers. Your Mom's coconut cream pie sounds gorgeous. I agree with you about the woods. As a child I often played in places that I would never let Jessica go alone or even with friends. Times have changed so much. I have always been relieved that Jessica does not share my love of horses. My parents worried like mad when I used to ride and looking back it was rather dangerous!
You and your church family continue to be in my prayers.
Sending a hug to Abby from Jessica.
Lindsay
x
Hugs!!
Wow, April. I just read your previous post. Incredible. I guess the best thing is to speak openly and honestly with your kids in a way that makes them aware but doesn't frighten them. I always alerted my children with what "could" happen if they were out alone at night or became lost from the crowd, and I think it worked because they are very cautious, young adults.
I too remember the freedom I had as a child growing up in a rural area. To me that seems almost as dangerous as urban life since it is so much more secluded and desolate. But we can't live our lives in fear, we can only keep our eyes and ears open.
xoxo
Jane
I love Eucerin moisturizer!!!
Now, I am craving a coconut cream pie!! YUM!
love this post!!!!!
first....kids....yep you can call me overprotective too....but to bad kiddos!!!!!!
and coconut cream pie.......oh.....LOVE IT!!!!!!!
and finally i really hope you and your church have some answers soon to help with the healing process!!!
you are all still in my thoughts and prayers!!!!!
April...Love all your answers but you still have one more question to answer...Mine....
Yep the woods use to be a favorite place for me to but this day and time no way...It's a shame also we can't live without fear.
Thanks for answering my questions. I didn't mean to puzzle ya. :)
I too use to explore the woods. And I encourage my son to do it all the time!! Thing is... we live in the country and there are NO houses near. Just trees and cotton fields as far as the eyes can see.
I love reading all your answers, April! And I couldn't agree with you more about your answer on not letting Abby and Brittany do what you used to do when you were young... Hubby and I were just talking about that the other night and I told him how I would not feel comfortable letting my child roam and play like I did! It's so sad, but that's the day in which we live, unfortunately!
I emailed you about most of this already, but I just wanted you to know I was here.
Oh and foot massages are the best! Carey use to give me one every once in a while, and then we got married. HA No more foot massages! I would give them to her but she thinks its gross.
Love and Prayers,
Tim
I have really enjoyed your answers. I understand completely about the woods thing. Poor Lexi will never get that "real" freedom either. Growing up I lived in Houston and went all over my neighborhood and down to a park area with some big concrete "ditches". We would play away and never worry about a thing. Now I wouldn't even walk down to the end of the block in that neighborhood it is soooo bad there. Times have certainly changed and that is so sad for our children!
These posts just make me love you even more...you have such a wonderful heart! I will be praying for you all!
Yes, hold our loved ones close.
It takes 3 hours for a hair cut because they are students and have teh instructor check before each step and they cut each peice one at a time and flat iron it one at a time!
you sure were asked some great questions! i used to go deep into the woods too. i always loved exploring when i was younger. i always liked going into abandoned houses, buildings, woods, etc. and i loved going into really old houses with secret passage ways, secret rooms, etc. i couldn't get enough of it. so exciting!
Oh April that is horrible news. I'm so sorry to hear this. Who can we trust is right.
This was fun! I really enjoyed reading all your answers! It's always a pleasure learning more about you sweet friend!
Praying for your church!
April, what a sad/terrible/messy situation for your church and for everyone involved. I'm so sorry. It sounds like you are doing a great job discussing it with Abby.
Loved the answers to the questions.
Hi April -
I must have missed your last post somehow, I went back and read it a minute ago. What a horrible thing. I know it's terrible, but I don't think you can trust anyone with your kids. A family friend of ours was molested by a church leader when he was a young teen and he has never been the same - all kinds of drug issues and depression. It was good that you were able to talk to your daughter about this.
((hugs))
Jen
Coconut cream pie! Yes!
I'm with you on the going out into the woods thing. We all have to keep a little more eye on our children than our parents did for us, and that's a shame. My kids aren't allowed into the woods without me. There's just too many things that could go wrong. If that makes me over-protective, I can live with that.
Love these, April!
I was raised on 8 acres and my Grannie still lives there. My 11yo niece just asked two weeks ago could her and a friend go off down to the creek by themselves. That was a big fat NO! What's sad is I would play down there by myself from sun up to sun down when I was her age. Things are so different now and I don't know who is roaming in those woods! So, I am with you on that.
Reading through your questions and answers these past weeks has been so much fun...so nice to get to know you better. Thanks for being so transparent! :)
I enjoyed your answers.
I just read it and it made my heart stop for a second. So, so scary. SO SCARY!
I will pray for the family.
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