Wednesday, January 14, 2009

My Chest Full of Memories...

Way back in 1983, my mom and dad surprised me with a Lane hope chest for Christmas. I absolutely loved it and, over the years, it's been the place where I store many of my keepsakes. Abby, especially, loves looking through it with me. Just the other night, in fact, she wanted to take a peek at her baby book. So, we got it out and thumbed through it together...seems like just yesterday that she was born! We had such a fun time! I, however, quickly decided that I really needed to organize my hope chest a little. So, yesterday, that's exactly what I did. I'll share with you some of the things I have stored in it.

See...isn't it pretty? It sits right at the foot of our bed. All too often, it becomes a place to lay "stuff", but I'm trying to get better about that!

This is the name plate that Mom and Dad put on the inside...
Here's the girls' baby books, along with one of my favorite books that I read to them when they were little ..."Love You, Forever". These are the girls' handprints in plaster that they made for me (Abby's is on the left; Brittany's is on the right). I still get a little teary-eyed everytime I look at them....they're so small!
This book was sent to Brittany from one of my dear friends in Alabama, who happens to be her former Sunday school teacher. She sent it to her when my mom passed away and wrote the sweetest note telling her she understood what it was to lose a grandmother at an early age...it had happened to her. The note is tucked inside the cover of the book.

On each of my daughter's birthdays, I always write them a letter telling them how much I love them, and I highlight some of the things that have happened in the past year. Abby has 12 of them; Brittany has 16.
I began keeping journals in the 5th grade. The gold one on the top right is the first I ever had. I sort of skipped a few years, then started it back up in high school. I wasn't real consistent about keeping them in college, but I did my best. These are my personal journals about my own life.

Then, when Chris and I started trying to have a baby a couple of years after we married, I kept a journal about my "journey" from finding out I was pregnant, all throughout my pregnancy, to when Brittany was finally born. I did the same thing for Abby and, also, wrote about the two miscarriages I suffered between their births. Once Brittany arrived, I kept on writing and never really stopped. Here's the pile of journals I've kept on just the girls. Each one of them has their own journals I've written and I'm about to complete two more to add to the collection. I enjoy reading over them because they bring back lots of memories I would have, otherwise, forgotten. Here's just some of the letters and cards I've received from family and friends over the years. I have more in my other hope chest that Chris made for me. The ones from my mom and dad really mean a lot to me since they're no longer here.
One thing I would have given anything for is if my mom had kept journals during her growing up years, and as a new wife and mother. I would love to have the opportunity to read her thoughts and dreams. I guess that's why I'm so motivated to leave this legacy of love for my daughters. I want them to be able to read what I feel and how I think. What makes me happy and what makes me sad? What my are my aspirations and things that inspire me?

My intention is to give Brittany and Abby the journals and letters I've been keeping for them on the day they get married. I hope it will be something they'll always cherish and serve as a reminder that they were deeply LOVED.

May your Wednesday be filled with wonderment!

Hugs and Blessings...

April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

29 comments:

Shell in your Pocket said...

Oh my...I loved this post! First, you wrote letters to your daughters???!!!! How wonderful is that...what a treasure.

Look at all those journals...all I can say is that your daughters are so very blessed. This post shed another beautiful "light" on you!
-sandy toe

Sue said...

April, this is the most precious gift you could ever give. I love the idea of writing a letter to each of your daughters on their birthdays. How they will cherish this in years to come. I wish I had done that. I used to keep a journal (more like a prayer journal) but have not continued to do so. I know it's not too late to start because I treasure even recipes in my mother's handwriting.

SmilingSally said...

My daughter and son-in-law write letters to their children every birthday. The children read the letter aloud to the family. It's always a special time.

You have a real treasure chest there!

Shelley said...

Yeah, Love You Forever is one of the books that I loved to read to my children. I would make a little song out of "Love you forever, love you for always". They really were such precious little things.......sigh.......

Debra Kaye said...

April,

The hope chest is just beautiful! What a treasure...however, the insides of the hope chest is priceless, my friend. What a joy for those girls one day to open up and read the words of their precious Mom.

You have reminded me of the Proverb that speaks of the wise woman that builds her house up! Beautiful, my friend...just beautiful. May your day be blessed...you have certainly blessed mine!

Anonymous said...

April,

This is the sweetest post! I can't believe that you have done all of that. Your girls are really going to appreciate all of it. Once again, you are a great Mom!

BTW, your hope chest was made in Altavista, VA. Bryan was raised only a few miles from there. :o)

Lindsay-ann said...

Hi April
I really wish I had read this post 12 years ago and then written letters to my daughter each birthday and kept journals. How special for your daughters to have these memories which can be passed down through your family in years to come. My daughter recently asked my MIL to write about her childhood in a journal. It was very interesting because she was a child in war time and was evacuated from London to live in the country. She lived with a family who went to church and that is when she became a christian herself.
Thanks for sharing your hope chest and all it's treasures. The hand prints are so cute.
Lindsay

Bo said...

Hi April...this is absolutely the sweetest memories you have stored for your daughters...I hope they'll carry on this tradition for their children some day. ;-) Bo

"Hello... It's Me Again..." said...

This is something your girls will look back on in years and smile. I'm sure they'll do this for their children too. I guess it isn't too late to start, so I think I'll start writing letters this year to my kids.

Darlene said...

Morning April,

I LOVED this post. What a fabulous treasure for you to write letters to your daughters and keep journals. The inside of your Hope chest is filled with so much LOVE. I think the letter writing is a fabulous idea and I am going to start. Thanks for sharing this today.

Kim's Treasures said...

Beautiful post! I wish I had kept journals of my kid's lives!

Have a great day!
Kim

Jennifer said...

How very special...what wonderful treasures! I really need to get better at saving things...and saving memories to share with future generations. Thanks for sharing.

Buzzings of a Queen Bee! said...

This is a wonderful idea. I love your treasures that you've kept in there over the years and I know that your daughters will too. I have a hope chest that my mom had made for me when I graduated college. It would be perfect to start collecting these things in it. Thanks for telling us about yours!
Carrie

Anonymous said...

I can only echo what the others have said. This is a wonderful post.

I can only imagine the flood of memories you have there. It truly stores some wonderful treasures.

Thank you so much for sharing this.

Sandy said...

April, that was a beautiful post! The book "Love you Forever" is a favorite at our house too. Aaron's first grade teacher recorded him reading the book for Mother's Day. I cry every time I listen to that tape:)

Heather said...

what a special post! i love all the journals you've written over the years and all the memories you are preserving. i wish i could do that. i tried about a year ago, but would forget to add things to it and haven't touched it since. I really want to leave something like that for Ella. Maybe I'll try again.

Tracey said...

I have a hope chest that my Grandma got me while I was in high school and it too is filled with baby mementos from my son....baby book, favorite clothes, blankets, crib set etc. I love to occasionally look through it.
:) Tracey

Astrid in Bristling Acres said...

Oh my! What a wonderful post!

I keep thinking about writing letters to my girls but I seem to have a fear of writing. I love scrapbooking...but I never get around to journaling (or I can't remember what happened or just don't know what to say). Which is all very silly- I should just try!

Thanks for visiting my blog!

The Muse said...

i feel like we have been blessed to see part of your soul...what a lovely heart felt post :)

i am glad you have wonderful family memories..thanks for sharing them!

Paula said...

That is awesome, April... especially the letters you have written to them every year. I know that they will always feel your love every time they read them!

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Shelley said...

I love how you are preserving memories and history! Your daughters will love this - especially when they have family of their own. That hope chest is great!!

Becky said...

That is so awesome. I have a chest a lot like yours by Lane. It was a hope chest until I got married now it hols extra blankets. I love the fact that you have written to your girls every year and kept journals for them.

Pam D said...

Wow, April. What a precious, beautiful legacy for your girls! Not just "their" stuff, but your stuff... the "who you were when you were little", and "who you were when THEY were little", and of course, this blog is the now. And all their sweet little things.. awww. It makes me want to go clean out all the old silver and serving stuff that's tucked in my cedar chest and do the same thing with all the mementos I have tucked around the house. Oh, dear, a new project! But one that will be SO much fun! Thanks for sharing such a great idea and such beautiful memories....

Anonymous said...

I just love this so much! I love that you write letters to the girls on their Birthdays.

This made me feel a little (or a lot) guilty because I have only scrapbooked 3 months of Kaishon's life so far. That's right I have 8 years and 9 months left to do...

I love the cedar chest and I love that your parents gave you such a special gift.

More and More I think you are the best mom on the planet! And I am very thankful God brought you into my life!

Daphine said...

I have truly enjoyed each post that you've written. However, this is my favorite of them all! This was an amazingly beautiful post with LOTS of inspiration for us all. Love the hope chest! This inspired me to talk to Dirk about possibly having one made for each of our girls for Christmas this year. What a great gift! I love the letters each year given to Brittany and Abby! I would have never thought of this. Hey, it's not too late...I will start doing this for their birthday this year! Thanks! I could just go on and on about this post. THANK YOU, April! You have inspired me in many ways friend!

Love ya!

Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional said...

That is absolutely beautiful, what a treasure. You're giving me gift ideas for my girls' next Christmas!

Lorrie said...

This is a wonderful post April. The contents of your hope chest are just priceless. How great that you've journaled all these years--that will be a wonderful legacy to pass on not only to your girls but to your grandchildren. I admire you for being so intentional in creating memories for your family.

Denise said...

I enjoyed this post sweetie.