Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Girls and Giggles...and UPDATE!

On Friday night, Brittany asked us if she could invite her boyfriend, Steven, to join us for our dinner out. Chris and I looked at each other and sort of rolled our eyes as if to say..."Here we go, again!" We really don't need to revisit the whole Andrew saga, now do we??? Just be reminded that it dragged on for 14 very LONG months. We were starting to believe there was no end in sight! Oh, and would you believe that when classes started back this semester, Brittany soon learned that Andrew is in one of them! She's not a happy camper about it, either!

Well, needless to say, we made the decision to go ahead and have Steven join us for dinner. We'd met him several times before, but she wanted to give us the opportunity to get to know him a little better. That's my girl...always looking out for ol' mom and dad! :)

We went to our favorite Mexican restaurant and got seated at a huge table where the seat curves around in a big L shape. So, Brittany and Steven sat at one end, Chris and I were at the other, and Abby was in the middle. We made small talk for awhile about this~n~that. Steven's had a tough go of it. His mom died of cancer when he was 8 years old and his dad passed away from a blood clot not long, thereafter. He's now living with his aunt and uncle and his twin brother. I'd heard the story from Brittany before and it broke my heart.

Steven is a nice boy and Brittany thinks the world revolves around him. Well, Brittany has a tendency to be very giggly. She gets tickled about the slightest things sometimes, but laughter is a good thing, right? Well, we were all talking amongst ourselves and I heard Brittany say, "Oh, Steven, I make lots of noises...you just haven't heard half of them." The very moment those words came out of her mouth, I took one look at her face, and it's as though the light bulb came on and she realized what she'd said. I started getting tickled, then she followed, and before we knew it...we had tears rolling down our faces! I, literally, thought I was going to spew my tea halfway across the room! It was the funniest thing ever and, probably, one of the most embarrassing. Poor Steven and Chris just sat there shaking there heads because they, obviously, had no clue what we were laughing about! It took us several minutes, at least, to completely regain our composure. It was a doozie, I tell ya!

I remember being that same way with my mom. We could take one look at each other and bust out laughing. We did it in doctor's offices, stores, church, you name it! As they say, laughter is the best medicine. If that's the case, I must be as healthy as a horse!!!

Hope you have a tremendous Tuesday!



UPDATE: I just received a call from my brother. He had just seen the oncologist about the melanoma he was diagnosed with. The doctor told him he didn't really see a need for further testing at this point...Praise the good Lord! He did have another spot on his cheek removed for biopsy...results will be in later this week. For the time being, however, all is well. Thank you so much for lifting him up in your prayers! Y'all are the best!
April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

32 comments:

Anonymous said...

There's nothing like a good giggle, especially with your girl.

That dear boy!!!... So many kids do it so tough... bless him!

My Tuesday was tremendous, thank you. Right back at ya!

Anonymous said...

That's terrible that Brittany's boyfriend has had to go through so much at a young age. I am so glad that he had family that was willing to step up to the plate.

What a wonderful relationship that you have with your girls!

Rune said...

Thanks for sweet comment on our blog:)

You have a beautiful familie, and an intresting blog:)

Wibeche

Debra Kaye said...

Oh April,

I cam just picture the scene and I'm trying to be quiet but I'm giggling quietly with ya...my insides are dying!

What a precious relationship you have with those girls, my friend.

Hugs to you today!

Shell in your Pocket said...

How how fun!!! I think it's neat that just with the "looks" you know what you are all thinking and die laughing...that is so fun!!!

Wishing you a smoother ride with this "beau"!
-sandy toe

Heather said...

what a great bond to share with each other! i can totally hear you two giggling up a storm!

SmilingSally said...

What a good relationship you have with your daughter. You must be a very good mom. If Steven sat through that giggle bout and was able to bond with your husband, I think he might just be a keeper.

Scrapper Mom said...

That's so sad about that boy's parents, but maybe he's used his experiences to make him stronger. God works in mysterious ways so I'm sure there is a plan. It's encouraging to me just to hear that after 14 months they broke up. I am still praying for that one!!

Georgia Girl said...

Great that you two can be together and have fun no matter who is around...Just shows your daughter will be herself and not to change in front of anyone...Shows a lot of confidence she has and that is lacking in lots of girls this day and time. Kudos to Mom and Dad!

Darlene said...

It is just too funny when you get cracked up and giggling so hard at something. My mom and I did that in Hobby Lobby the last time she was here. We were laughing so hard (at really nothing) that she had to make a mad dash for the bathroom.....hehehe

Anonymous said...

What??? You went to eat Mexican and you didn't ask me?? hee hee I love Mexican.

Anyway, back to the story-- I loved this. My cheeks were hurting as I was reading it. I could just see this happening.

~Hugs from TN~

Kim's Treasures said...

Sounds like it ended up being a fun time! I feel so sad for this boy, he sure has been through a lot.

We went through 2 long will this ever end relationships with our daughter. When I look back each one was a stepping stone to finding the one she has now (we adore him) and if it hadn't been for the other 2 she may not have found him.

Have a wonderful day!
Kim

Unknown said...

how funny love the story.

Anonymous said...

I love that you have this beautiful connection with your daughter! It makes my heart happy! So lovely!

Pam D said...

Those giggles will provide some of the best memories ever, and it's great that you can record them in this blog! Someday, your girls will read this, and it will bring a huge smile (or even giggle) as they remember!
Blessings.. have a super Tuesday!

More Than Words said...

Oh, that is the best (laughing with your kids). I think those moments are priceless!!!

Lorrie said...

Too funny April! If Steven can survive his first dinner out with the giggling girls of the family and still come back for more, he's probably a really good kid!

Jenni said...

It's great that you have such a wonderful relationship with your daughter! And that is a really funny story! :)

I feel really badly for your daughter's boyfriend~ losing both parents would be devastating!

I hope that you have a great Tuesday as well! :)

Daphine said...

Okay, I am really going to have to be more careful taking a drink while reading your posts in the future. I almost choked myself to death with the coke I had in my mouth. This was too funny! I had to go back and read what Brittany had said several times. Funny, but also embarrassing, huh?

I pray that your day is going well!

Heather said...

wow, that is great news! i'm so happy you updated us on your brother!!!

Cheryl said...

That is so great to have a tight bond with your daughter. My daughter and I have a close bond but it didn't happen until later on after she got older. Now I also share a close bond with my sons girlfriend they call her my minime lol. Thanks for the compliment. I love reading your blog.
Peace and Blessings
Cheryl..Snatch Joy

Lindsay-ann said...

Hello April
It was great to hear you enjoyed your meal out with Steven. I was so sad to hear about his parents. Perhaps if he is 'around' for a while then your husband will appreciate some male company being around so many giggling girls! I also get fits of giggles with my Mum and Jessica sometimes. With my Mum it's usually at some kind of church event. All we need is to see someone start to shake with giggles and it sets us off. I will tell you about the most memorable occasion sometime!
I am pleased to hear the good news about your brother.
Best Wishes
Lindsay

Grace said...

Hi April, I found your blog through Denise' and I hope you don't mind that I'm here.
I enjoyed reading your blog. It is so nice to be in a blog that glorifies God's name.

Becky said...

Oh how funny! Did the guys ever catch on?

Sue said...

What a hoot!! I can just see you girls laughing now. So glad your brother got a great report from the doctor.

Aubrey said...

LOL
Sounds like an eventful dinner! So...what do you think of Steven?

I remember inviting my best friend along to almost everything. Plus, we went to the same church. We would get into giggling fits all the time. Especially when praying at the dinner table. Yikes!

GREAT news about your brother. My fingers are crossed for that 2nd spot coming back a-OK!

Jennifer said...

Great post - praising the Lord with you regarding your brother's doctor visit....and laughing right along with Brittany - and all the wonderful noises she can make! Gotta love getting to know the boyfriend!!

Buzzings of a Queen Bee! said...

That's great that you and your daughter can laugh together...and that you got through the dinner with the boyfriend! :) I am also glad to hear the good news from your brother!
Carrie

Unknown said...

Congrats for him somehow I missed your post about going to South Carolina for Christmas but I live at the exit before exit one small world.

Daphine said...

Glad to hear the good news on your brother. Praise the Lord!

The Quintessential Magpie said...

April, loved reading about your family dinner! So cute!

And PTL about your brother! Thanks for ther report.

XO,

Sheila :-)

Denise said...

Thanks for the update, your dear brother remains in my prayers.