Thursday, January 29, 2009

A Mother Listens

I love the "Chicken Soup for the Soul" books and have quite a few of them. One of my favorites is the one for mothers and daughters. I was thumbing through it the other day and came across this poem I thought I'd share. Hope you like it as much as I do.

A Mother Listens
They are so small and fragile, you are afraid you will
not hear~
you lay awake and...listen.
They are little and just in the next room, suddenly it
is very quiet~
you go to the doorway and...listen.
They are bigger and have much to tell you about
their day~
you are busy and very tired but you make the time
and...listen.
They are a little bigger and so secretive, they do not
say much anymore~
you must find different ways to...listen.
They are teenagers and talk a strange new language~
you try hard to hear without commenting and
just...listen.
They are growing up, all at once they know it all~
it's best to let them think so
and...listen.
They are becoming adults, they want to talk and ask
your advice~
there might be things you do not want to hear, but
you...listen.
They grow up and go away~
you hate the silence, the phone rings, you can't
wait to...listen.
They come to visit with their kids, all demanding
your ears at once~
someone shouts "be quiet!", no it's all right, it's so
wonderful to...listen.
They get older, you get old, they speak loud as if you
are deaf~
it's okay, you nod your head and...listen.
You pass on, and when they pray, they do not ask
for God~
they need to talk to you, God is gracious, and once
again He lets you...listen.
~Carolee Hudgins~


Make it a beautiful day and...listen! ♥Hugs♥
April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

28 comments:

Unknown said...

That is so beautiful and right on the money.

Thanks for shating such a wonderful poem.

you have a great day too!!

Marlene

Mozi Esme said...

Sweet poem...

Denise said...

So precious my friend, love you.

Pam D said...

That reminds me of one of my favorite books that I read to my son nightly for a long time, "Love You Forever". It all goes around...
Listening...

SmilingSally said...

My two are grown, but ahhh. Thanks for sharing.

Aubs said...

Love that...i needed that reminder of how special it is that i can listen. With my two chatter boxes sometimes it gets overwhelming to try to listen...i will look to see it as the blessing it is today and from now on! Great post!

Shelley said...

This is a lovely post - I love Chicken Soup for the Soul! my hubby attended a conference where Jack Canfield (author) spoke - and said he was the neatest and nicest person!

Debra Kaye said...

April,

This one got to me...ugh! I don't have Kleenex sitting next to me.

((hugs)) to you, sweet friend. Happy Thursday.

Rhondi said...

Hi April
I'd love it if you'd join us for Thankful Thursday. I'll add you to the list for next week.

Darlene said...

That is so beautiful!!!!!

Keeper of the Skies Wife said...

That made me cry! Thanks for sharing that with us.

Heather said...

that's so sweet. Happy Thursday to ya!

Queenie Jeannie said...

Fabulous post!!!

I'M LISTENING!!! =)

Jen @ tatertotsandjello.com said...

What a beautiful poem! It really captures the essence of what it is to be a mom. Thanks April!

Jen

Anonymous said...

Sweet!

Unknown said...

Thats beautiful

michele said...

Beautiful! How wise of you to share this with us today!! Love, Michele

Aubrey said...

Wow. This really touched my heart. My 11 year old daughter and I have a bumpy relationship. I'm sure it's because many times I don't stop to...listen.
This was beautiful. Thanks for sharing. I'm going to print and post it so I can look at it each day and have it as my reminder to do just that...listen!
Thank you!

The Muse said...

I am sure you know that I find this most lovely!

Although long since grown, my sons will always be my boys :)

Lindsay-ann said...

April, This is such a beautiful poem. Thanks for sharing it and reminding us to listen.
Lindsay

Nicole O'Dell said...

That was really beautiful and so right on! Thanks for posting it.

Anonymous said...

That is a very beautiful poem. Even though I am not a mother it inspires me to be a better aunt.

Anonymous said...

Very sweet words.

Carrie said...

Thanks April for sharing!! This poem couldn't of hit any closer to home at the moment. My daughter will be 18 in September and leaving for college in the Fall. And let's just say I am having a HARD time with this, so I needed to read this!! Acutally, I may print this one out...

Thanks again, Carrie♥

Anonymous said...

That is so beautiful and sweet. I loved it! Thanks for sharing.

Shell in your Pocket said...

April,
I am doing a new type of post on Fridays...I would like to feature you next Friday.

Email me if you are interested...
www.shellinyourpocket.blogspot.com

Grace said...

I love this article, April. Thanks for sharing. :)

Rune said...

Great poem:)

It`s ok that you thouth Rune was my last name;)
No hard feelings:o))

Have a blessed weekend.

Wib.