Monday, February 7, 2011

Date Night...And A Change Of Plans

As you may recall, Chris and Abby had reservations for "Daddy-Daughter Date Night" at Chick Fil-A on Saturday night. Well, Chris and I had to go out and run a few errands on Saturday afternoon and when we got home, we found this note from Abby sitting by our computer.

She had located a video on YouTube of a "Daddy-Daughter Date Night" at a Chick Fil-A in another state. Chris and I hit the 'play' button as we were instructed and, sure enough, there was not one picture of a teenage girl in attendance. All the girls were about 4-9 years of age. Chris and I looked at each other and decided that Abby would probably feel very humiliated if we made her go...and if word got out to all of her friends...HEAVEN FORBID! She's at that "funny age", you know, when what your peers think is what really matters! Let me just add here that Abby knows exactly how to work up a sweet deal!

So, Abby got herself all dolled up and Chris changed into a nice shirt and off they went. They ended up going to an upscale Mexican restaurant called Fuego's. We've never eaten there before, so they wanted to try it. Abby had a chicken tortilla salad that she said was DE-LICIOUS! Here she is looking mortified that Chris was snapping a picture of her with her mouth full!

After they finished their meals, they walked next door to Charming Charlies. It's a favorite place of mine and Abby's! They have some of the cutest jewelry around! A girl could spend days on end in that place! Chris told her to pick out a necklace and earrings and he'd buy them for her...he threw an extra necklace in there just to make is really "special". Here she is trying to decide which piece of jewelry to get.

After they made their purchase, it was off to Steak-N-Shake to satisfy their sugar craving with a yummy milkshake!

They were gone for about 3 hours and I got to enjoy a little time to myself. Now that I think about it, I believe Abby got a better date out of Chris than I usually get! Hey...wait just a minute here! Ha! Oh, well, they both came home with big smiles on their faces...and new memories tucked away in their minds and hearts. I'm sure they can't wait to do it, again, very soon!



P.S. I ended up having to go to one of those walk-in medical clinics yesterday afternoon. I was in such pain on Saturday night that I had to sleep in the guest room for fear of keeping Chris up all night long. My neck and right shoulder have been killing me! The doctor seems to think I could either have a pinched nerve or a herniated disc in my neck (I hope NOT!) He has me on a muscle relaxer and pain medication. If it doesn't get better in a week-10 days, I'm supposed to go see my family doctor for an MRI. I was able to sleep better last night, thanks to Tylenol with Codine, but I'm still having some pain this morning, though not as severe. Please say a prayer that my neck and shoulder will heal SOON! THANK YOU!

April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

21 comments:

SmilingSally said...

You and Chris are wise parents to allow Abby to refuse one place and yet choose another. After all, the object is to bond!

I'm sorry you're having pain, but whatever you do, do not think of surgery as slipped disks (same as herniated) fix themselves with time and gentle treatment. I speak from experience.

Have a good week, April, and I'll pray for you.

Lindsay-ann said...

Hi April
So glad to hear their date night turned out wonderfully in the end. I enjoyed seeing the pictures. Abby looks so beautiful.
Sorry you are in pain right now April. I will pray for a speedy recovery. Sending a hug.
Lindsay
x

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful daddy/daughter date night! I love it when dads show their girls how men should treat them. I suppose that's why Brittany was able to realize that the guy who wouldn't take her out was NOT what she needed or wanted. And having worked for FedEx for 13 years, I've had some pretty bad neck/shoulder pain. I discovered that the sooner I went to my trusty chiropractor, the better. And Tempurpedic pillows and toppers... none better. Praying that it eases up for you soon...

Jodi said...

OOOhhhh..hope you are feeling better, back pain is not something that can be tolerated for very long. Abby is a good sales person, I see she got her way! She's too funny! LOL!

the Lola Letters said...

Ah ha ha ha ha! What a sassy little smarty pants! {Clever girl, LOVE it!}

This story made me smile ear to ear.

Sorry about your neck pain - that is AWFUL!!! Hope it is the nerve rather than disc trouble for sure! Good luck!

Rebecca Jo said...

Oh my gosh... that note has me cracking up!!! Girlfriend did her research, didnt she?

Love that Chris still took her out on a date night ... & a pick of jewelry AND Steak & Shake for dessert? What a memory making night! Kudos to Chris for snapping pictures along the way too! :)

Poor thing.. hope your back is something that heals up quickly. When your back hurt, it wipes you out... prayers for a quick healing!!!

Anonymous said...

I really love this April! So sweet! I am glad that they had a fun night out. And I think she is a genius to look up a youtube video. That kid is too cute.

I hope you feel better soon. I just prayed for you!

Blondie's Journal said...

Awwww...this is such a sweet post, April. It sounds like Abby and Chris had a wonderful time. I really had a good, hard laugh over Abby's note!

I hope you feel better soon. A herniated disc is serious business. I will be thinking of you!

XO,
Jane

The Quintessential Magpie said...

sweet girl, will send up vip petition for you. sorry you've been hurting. hope it's better.

xoxoxoxoxoxo,

s.

The Quintessential Magpie said...

p.s. nice to see they enjoyed themselves. looks like fun.

Mommy Mac said...

I love this date night...I love the note from her even better!

She has a great personality it seems!

Feel better, April!

.mac :)

Amy said...

What a sweet date! That is something she will always cherish.

I hope you get to feeling better soon. Pain is so not fun!

Designs on 47th Street said...

Hi April, I loved reading the story about Abby and Chris and the birthday dinner. So cute. We have raised 3 daughters, so I know what you are talking about! My sister in law talks about Charming Charlies in Houston. Sounds like a great place!
So sorry about your pain! My guess is it is a pinched nerve. i get that from time to time and heat makes it feel better. Yours sounds awfully painful. I will say a prayer for you. Hoping it heals very soon!!

Donna

LisaDay said...

My dad and I have been doing dad and daughter dinners since my first year of college. Each year, we switch who foots the bill. It's a day a treasure and look forward to.

Thank you for popping by on my SITS day.

LisaDay

Neabear said...

Sounds like the date turned into a fun evening for them. And for you, time home alone is nice too. I hope you feel better soon. That kind of pain is not fun.

~Linnea

Stacey said...

Now that date night sounds like fun. What a great dad!!

I just went to Charming Charlies for the first time when we were in Dallas a few weeks ago. Oh my, fun times. :)

Hope you feel better very soon.

Beth in NC said...

What a sweet Daddy!

Ouch, April I pray you feel better! Take care of yourself!!!

Denise said...

You and Chris are such great parents. I am praying for God to heal you.

missy said...

What a great "date"!!! I want somebody to take me on a date like that!! Is he free anytime soon!! :)
Hope you are feeling better!!!

Anonymous said...

That's too funny about ChickFila! I am glad that they had a great time at a different place! Sorry to hear about your neck & shoulder! I hope you are feeling better!

wife.mom.nurse said...

sooo funny!

It looks like they chose good alternatives :)

I hope that you are feeling better!