Monday, February 1, 2010

She's All Grown Up...

People used to tell me all the time things like,, "Cherish every moment" and "It's goes by so fast!" However, I guess I never really understood the truth behind those words until now. Today, my oldest daughter, Brittany, turns 18. Wow...an ADULT! How can it possibly be? I must admit, this is the day that I've been dreading ever since I gave birth to her. In the back of my mind, I always knew it was coming...just not this quickly. You see...18 years ago today, my heart was forever changed. I became someone I had always longed to be...a MOM! I never knew so much love in all my life as that day when I stared into her eyes for the very first time. She was mine...really MINE! Now...my heart has to learn how to let go and allow her to chase her own dreams. God...please give me the strength to loosen my grip and to give YOU the reigns. I trust that you will watch over her as she ventures off on her own. Still...as her mom, it's one of the hardest things I've ever had to do.

Brittany~

I want you to know how very proud I am of you. I hope you know that these past 18 years raising you have been AMAZING, awe-inspiring, and, yes, even challenging, at times. However, there isn't a single second that I would take back even if I could. We've made some of the best memories that I will forever and a day hold close to my heart. I pray that I've done a good job of instilling in you the life skills and morals and values that will enable you to make your way in this world. I wish for you all the happiness and success life will bring your way. Most importantly, I want you to always remember that I'm here for you, day or night. That will never change! I have been, and will continue to be, your biggest fan! Though miles may come between us, I'm certain that the bond between us will keep us close.

Happy 18th Birthday! Stretch your wings and FLY!!! Just promise me one thing...that you'll never forget how to find your way back HOME.

All my love~
Mom♥





"Some say it's holding on that makes you strong...sometimes it's letting go."

April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

34 comments:

Lorrie said...

Such a sweet tribute to Brittany April. The love that a mom feels for her children is an incredible and wonderful thing. Have a fun day celebrating Brittany's 18th--and may you have many more birthdays to share!

mysteryhistorymom said...

Happy Birthday to sweet, sweet Brittany! What a beautiful young lady you have helped her to become, April! Such precious words you have written to her...:) Lori

Denise said...

Such a beautiful tribute, happy birthday brittany.

Rebecca Jo said...

Seeing those pictures of your lives together just totally made me tear up... what a wonderful thing a mother/daughter relationship is...

Happy Birthday Brittany!

Anonymous said...

*sniffle* how touching this post is April...Happy Birthday to your beautiful daughter! There is no stronger bond than that of a mother and her children...xoxx

Kim's Treasures said...

Happy Birthday Brittany!!!

Heather said...

aww, Happy birthday Brittany! I love the last picture of the two of you. Absolutely beautiful together. I hope she has a wonderful birthday today.

missy said...

Happy Birthday Brittany!!!!!!
Oh April.....I have tears!!!!!! I love the pictures and the quote at the end of the post!!!!!!

Amy said...

What a great tribute to your daughter, it gave me chills. She has grown into a lovely young lady and if she is anything like her mom, I know she is a sweetheart!

Happy Birthday, Brittany!

Sue said...

How sweet and what a beautiful young lady! Time does pass so quickly and I'm afraid some "young" moms don't realize this when their children are born. I loved seeing the pictures of you and Brittany through the years. Happy Birthday, sweet Brittany!

Anonymous said...

What a lovely gal, April. I am glad I have gotten to know her through your blog.

Happy Birthday, Miss Brittany!

Andrea said...

Beautiful young lady. I know you are very proud!
Hugs,
andrea

Jen @ tatertotsandjello.com said...

Ohhh, I remember that feeling. Time goes by so fast! My oldest is turning 16 in two weeks. It is crazy!

Your daughter is just beautiful! I know you are so proud of her. I hope she has a wonderful 18th birthday!!!

XOXO
Jen

Darlene said...

What a sweet tribute to your dear Brittany. I know how proud you are of her.

Happy Birthday Brittany!!!! Have fun!!♥

Keeper of the Skies Wife said...

That was beautiful!! Happy Birthday to her!

Lindsay-ann said...

Happy Birthday Brittany
Hope you have an amazing day. April, the words you wrote to Brittany were so heart felt. She is so lucky to have a Mom like you. Thanks for sharing all the cute pictures and the more recent beautiful ones too.
Best Wishes
Lindsay
x

Beth said...

Awww, what a sweet post! Happy Birthday Brittany!

Panamamama said...

Happy Birthday, Brittany! April, you haven't changed one bit since that first picture!

The Muse said...

So delighted to stop in and send birthday wishes..!
You both look so lovely!!!!

Aubs said...

ummm...so wasn't ready to cry but i am! that was beautiful. i can't even imagine the range of emotions but she is a lucky girl to have YOU for a mom!

Happiest Birthday Brittany! May this be an exciting year of growth and fun!!

Andrea said...

Hope you don't mind. I added a link to your blog on arise 2 write.
andrea

Anonymous said...

Awww...I totally know how you feel because my Chicky turned 18 on the 22nd of January. They do grow up so fast! Of course, they weren't really our's to begin with, eh? They were simply on loan from heaven!

Pam D said...

Oh my word... you were crying when you wrote that, weren't you? Because I was all teared up by the time I was finished reading it. What a beautiful tribute to a lovely young woman; happy 18th birthday, Brittany. Your parents have given you the greatest gift of all; a firm foundation on which to build your life. And April, you did good...

Judi said...

Hi April
What a beautiful post and such lovely wishes for your daughter's 18th birthday. Your daughter is beautiful... I know it was a lovely celebration.
Happy Birthday wishes....
*hugs*
Judi

coolboy said...

very sweet family , looks good to see u all , an angel family

Anonymous said...

Awww... that was so sweet! The years just seem to go by so fast! Happy Birthday Brittany!

Cyndy Bush said...

What a beautiful post! It just hit me that my oldest child will be seventeen next month - where did the time go?

Queenie Jeannie said...

Beautiful, sweet post!

Happy Birthday Brittany!!!!

Shell in your Pocket said...

What a wonderful post...I have tears in my eyes..thank you very much!

sandy toe

Jennifer said...

So sweet, April. Brittany is very blessed to have such a mommy! I hope her day was extra special!

Anonymous said...

This made me cry.

wife.mom.nurse said...

As usual, you bring tears to my eyes...precious post.

~Julie

Daphine said...

Oh my goodness! What a beautiful and touching tribute! Seriously made me cry! Just beautiful!

Alexis Voltaire said...

Amazing post. Great letter, and pictures. I admire the love in your family.