Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Fun Celebration!

Brittany ended up having a GREAT 18th birthday! Thank all of you so much for your sweet birthday wishes! We took her out to dinner at Macaroni Grill after she got home from track practice. Boy, was it ever GOOD! When we got back home, we sang "Happy Birthday" to her and she opened her gifts. Abby had us all in tears. She'd written a one-page letter to Brittany telling her how much she loved her and how much she's going to miss her when she goes off to college. She let me read it the night before and I just sat there and cried. However, when I saw Brittany's reaction, I started crying, again! It was the sweetest letter EVER and I know it meant so much to Brittany. She's the best little sis!

After she finished opening her gifts, Chris, Abby and I doused her with Silly String from head to toe! Her entire head was completely covered with the goopy mess...and it was so much FUN! It took her forever to get it out of her hair...and off her clothes...and out of the carpet, etc.

Her two best friends stuffed her locker at school with balloons, so she couldn't open her locker door without them floating all over the floor! I love that!!! So, as you can tell, I think her 18th birthday was one she'll remember for a long time.

Tomorrow, I'll be able to disclose what Brittany has decided to do about college as it will be "official". We are all so excited...and very relieved! This has been such a stressful process and I'm glad it's finally coming to an end! I do want to share with you something that happened during her official visit. Well, she and her boyfriend have been together for the past 9 months. She sent him a text message on Saturday night telling him that she was having such a good time hanging out with everyone on the team. Apparently, out of nowhere, Brittany said he made the decision to break up with her...in a text message! We were both completely stunned! Can you believe it? She didn't see it coming, at all! However, now that a few days have passed, we have a pretty good idea why he dumped her. He's always been one to hover over Brittany and I don't think he could handle the fact that she was having so much fun...without him. I'm sorry, but that's about the lowest of lows what he did to her. Of all the timing! She was completely heartbroken during her visit. Oh...and did I mention that this all happened only 2 days before her birthday? Thankfully, Brittany is a strong young woman. She was down for a few days, but she's back on her feet, again! As I told her, there are much bigger fish to fry! :)

Well, I have to get busy vacuuming the floor for the millionth time! We have another showing scheduled at noon with a corporate buyer who's already sold his house and needs something ASAP! Aah....nothing like a little PRESSURE!!!

April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

33 comments:

Rebecca Jo said...

What good girls you have for them to be such close sisters... precious!

Love that you all doused her in silly string!

BOOOOOO to her EX-boyfriend. A text message? Really? And not a valid reason on top of that on why he's breaking up with her? Oh well - She's beautiful inside & out - no need to fret over someone who has class like that to break up via text... teen boys of today - mercy!

Shell in your Pocket said...

I am lost...are you moving???

That is AWFUL with that boy....I am sorry..if he hides behind a text message...he is a good one to drop!

Can you imagine him in a marriage?
yikes.

sandy toe

Stacey said...

April, my head is spinning just hearing about all of that. :)

Sounds like the birthday party was wonderful. Happy Birthday Miss 18year old!

I know Brittany had her feelings hurt. It sure does hurt at that age. Time to move on though.

Can't wait to hear about the college decision.

Jodi said...

Happy 18th birthday! What a special day for you all! I love the photo of the two of you, it's just beautiful.

Sounds like Brittany is better off without that guy...who didn't even have the decency to speak to her in person. She's such a sweet girl, she can do much better than him!

Darlene said...

Beautiful picture of the two of you. Sounds like Brittany had a GREAT birthday. How fun with the balloons in the locker...hehehe.

A text message????...how low! Glad she is strong and doing alright after the breakup. I just don't "get" kids these days that do things like that. You would think their parents have talked to them.

I can't wait to hear what her official plans are.♥

Andrea said...

How exciting. Thank you for sharing Brittany's 18th birthday celebration with us.
Hugs,
andrea

Unknown said...

what a great birthday I love the balloons and silly string!

poo on that boy

Carrie

Sandy said...

You have raised some amazing young ladies April! I am sure that Brittany will do just fine! :0)

Jennifer said...

LOVE LOVE LOVE the silly string!!

Denise said...

Your daughters are precious, glad she enjoyed her birthday. Sorry about her boyfriend, definitely his big loss.

missy said...

oh my gosh april......i cried!!!!! i got a letter like that from taylor (our 18 yr. old) not to long ago......TEARS!!!!!

boyfriends.......GRRRRRRRR!!!!! what a little poop he must be!!!!! she will find the right one some day!!!!!

and i can NOT WAIT to hear the news!!!!!! :) i'm excited!!!!!!!

Lindsay-ann said...

Hi April
So glad to hear that Brittany enjoyed her birthday and had lots of fun too. Abby is such a thoughtful sister to write her a letter like that. I am sure Brittany will treasure it forever.
Glad to hear she has made a decision about college. I look forward to hearing all about it. So sorry to hear about what happened with her boyfriend. She is far too good for someone like that. What a horrible thing to do.
Lindsay
x

Linda said...

It sounds like Brittany had a fantastic birthday despite the heartless ex! She is strong and such a shining star!

I have no idea what was in Abby's letter but I'm still almost in tears! Such a sweet gift!

I can't wait for your announcement tomorrow!

Heather said...

aww, what a great birthday. and what wonderful sweet sisters they are.
can't wait to hear the final decision on which college! phew, that's a huge weight off everyone's shoulders now.
and the ex boyfriend sounds like a slug, lol.

Sue said...

Can't wait to hear Brittany's choice! As far as the boyfriend...anyone who would break up with a text message didn't deserve Brittany. Hope you sell your house at this showing.

Anonymous said...

Can't wait to hear about the college! Eeeek!!! Squeal!!

18????????? No way. Oh my gosh. Crazy.

I want some silly string! I will SO be buying myself....er....I mean...ALEX some silly string!

Lorrie said...

We need a drumroll for the school announcement! Can't wait to hear.

My kids have told me that texting is now a common way to break up. It seems really crass to me, but I guess it's the norm now...

Glad you all had a fun family birthday dinner!

Keeper of the Skies Wife said...

Oh that is a memorable 18th birthday indeed!!

I love the silly string!

You had me boohooing reading your post. I just got done writing Megs for tomorrow (she'll be 22) and I'm already an emotional mess.

She is a beautiful, talented young lady! You did good momma.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRITTANY!!!!

southerninspiration said...

Oh, friend, you had me in tears, too.......I am right there with you with my daughter the same age as B, so I know how you are feeling! And if I had ex's number, I would text HIM and let him know what a distasteful move he made to text a breakup!!! Oh gee, what nerve!....she will be better off and be free to have a fabulous time! Go,B, go!
Suzanne

Jen @ tatertotsandjello.com said...

Hi April!

What a milestone! She is just the most beautiful girl. I am glad she had a good day. And silly string -- so fun!

XOOX
Jen

Debra Kaye said...

April,

She is a beauty and such a joy to see sisters sooo close!

Great job, Mama Bear. I can tell ya what I'd like to do with a couple of more cans of silly string...oops, did I say that out loud...did you hear that EX? lol

Love ya, girlie!

Queenie Jeannie said...

I remember your doubts about this dude before April! Soooo glad he's out of the picture now! Hugs to Britt!!

Sounds promising about the house!!!! Good luck!

Melissa Miller said...

Now I'm crying too...:)

Happy Birthday Brittany!

Anonymous said...

How stressful is that for you! Oh my. I mean the house selling thing. Also of course your baby growing up... Is your husband in the military? I hope so just so you don't have to pack everything up. I feel like that would be MUCHO stressful too April!

wife.mom.nurse said...

Wow!!! 18!

Happy Belated Birthday Brittany!

So sorry about the breakup...text! Coward!

Glad to hear she is okay!
~Julie

The Quintessential Magpie said...

I hope that she had the best birthday ever! Please give her my belated wishes, April. I've been up to my eyeballs in alligators, and I haven't been able to post lately. Am taking a break to blog because I miss all of you!

XO,

Sheila :-)

Robin Beck said...

That Ex boyfriend of hers did her a favor. What a jerk. Horrible timing, and in a text message? Hello? C'mon, grown up dude.
Of course that is just my two cents!
Happy Happy Birthday Brittany!
My son Timothy's birthday is on Feb 12th-He will be 18 too!

Robin~♥

Anonymous said...

I am glad that Brittany had a great 18th birthday! I have heard that breaking up with someone through texting is the way things are now a days. It sounds like she's better off without him.

Beth in NC said...

Sounds like a wonderful birthday April. Ah, silly string is messy. You're a nice Mom to have allowed that in the house. No way! :o)

Beth in NC said...

Sounds like a wonderful birthday April. Ah, silly string is messy. You're a nice Mom to have allowed that in the house. No way! :o)

Alexis Voltaire said...

Just reading about that letter brought tears to my eyes. :)

Bethany said...

I'm sorry about her boyfriend, that's really low of him, but I'm glad she had a good 18th Birthday!!! Sounds like life is exciting over there these days :)

Georgia Girl said...

April...you and Chris have a made a remarkable impact on your girls so this is why they love each other so much. So many kids today do not have the closeness that these girls have.
What great friends Brittany has and oh me there will be lots of boys when college is here...