Today, it's "Thankful Thursday" hosted by Rhondi of Rose Colored Glasses. I always love the chance it gives me to dig deep down inside myself and see...REALLY see...all that I have to be thankful for.Am I the only one...or does it seem like there's a lot of suffering going on here in Blogland? I'm always taken aback every time I check my blog to see the number of people who've requested prayers for chronically sick children or loved ones. It brings me to my knees, literally. There are, also, those who've recently lost someone they loved dearly. The struggles people are facing right now are almost unbearable, it seems. My heart breaks for each and every one of those who are having such a difficult time.
Just yesterday afternoon, Chris received a phone call from his mother. She informed him that she'd read in the newspaper that the brother of one of his best high school friends got killed in a car accident. He wasn't wearing a seat belt and got ejected from the car. He was air-flighted to a local hospital where he passed away. He was only 37 years old! He still had his whole life in front of him! So, today, Chris will be attending his visitation service. Of course, there's also the story of what happened to a woman from my Bible study class when we lived in Alabama. Her 9 year old son was in a 4 wheeler accident in September of 2007. He miraculously survived, but he's still in a coma, and his doctor's can't offer a definitive prognosis. So, they wait...wondering from one day to the next what will be the outcome. This is only the tip of the iceberg of what they've had to endure.
I just believe that life if far more fragile than any of us realizes. One day...everything is plugging along smoothly. Then, the next day, something happens and life as you now know it is forever altered. God never promised any of us a life without trials and tribulations, so we need to always be aware that things can, and do happen, to change the course of one's life. No one is immune...rich or poor, young or old, Christians or non-believers.
So, on this Thankful Thursday, I'm incredibly grateful for the gift of life and for my health, and the health of my family. I realize now more than ever before that it can be here today, but gone in an instant tomorrow. So, I will relish in the sounds of my girls laughing, singing, and even arguing! I will find immense pleasure in watching them run, dance, and act their goofy selves. I will cherish the touch of my husband's hand in mine and the sound of him telling me how much he loves me. I will treasure LIFE because it is such an incredible gift and one not to be taken for granted. Above all, I will give thanks to God for being so gracious and ask Him to pour his loving kindness and mercy upon those who are in need.
"Some people are always grumbling that roses have thorns; I am thankful that thorns have roses."~Alphonse Karr
P.S. K.MAC Creations is having a fun giveaway! She's asked for participants to post about what is unique about them. Well, I think I'm unique because, even though I lost my mom, dad, and brother in only 6 short years, God has given me the ability to have a positive outlook on life. I take chances and don't allow myself to be consumed by all the "what ifs". I believe in living in the here and now! Tomorrow will worry about itself!



37 comments:
Amen my sweet friend, amen.
your words are true! i woke up this morning thinking about how fragile life really is... how every day is a gift we tend to take for granted ... hope your day is happy :).
It's good to take time to appreciate the gift of life.
Chris' friend's brother's life could have been spared if he'd worn his seatbelt! What a shame.
April you are so right. We do need to take time to remember and be thankful for our health and life itself. We can't live in attitude of doom and gloom but we do need to remember that circumstances can change in an instant.
I am doing a gratitude list during the day at work...it raises my spirits so much.
I do have so much to be thankful for.
I know it sounds cliche, but I really try to live each day to the fullest. Tomorrow is not guaranteed for anyone. So put off anything.
So true April. I have often thought the same thing about the suffering of our friends in blogland.
We really should count our blessings each day.
So very true~
sandy toe
Wonderful post, and sooo true! I am also grateful for the health of my family! Thanks for sharing!
I have Mother of the Year Award for you over on my blog! You are awesome. Have a great day!
What a great post! There is indeed so much suffering in the blogosphere and in the world in general...life is hard. But like you i am so incredibly blessed to be healthy and have a healthy family. It is my daily prayer that i can refuse to get caught up in the bickering and tantrums and exhaustion of life with little ones and instead cherish every bit of it! Life is tough but God is good!
Very true! Life is a gift
A beautiful reminder on how precious life is! Sorry to hear about your husband's friend and that poor little boy in the coma - so sad!
WOW! So well written. It seems we take life for granted so easily. I'm constantly telling my family to slow down and enjoy the small things in life, we never know when it will end.
beautiful post April. so very true.
Thanks for stopping by April. Hot Springs is beautiful, I haven't been there in many years, though. Hoping to go back some day. This was a beautiful post, and really spoke to alot of what I've been feeling lately. I hope that you'll come back to read the rest of my story. I promise it gets better!
April,
What I love so much about your sweet spirit is that it is so on the mark. To treaure a husband's voice telling you he loves you, is something that we shouldn't take for granted because you are right...life is fragile and we aren't guaranteed tomorrow. I love that you embrace it today...I try to do the same.
Your thankful heart touches me deeply. I always leave here feeling like a far richer person.
Blessings to you, my sweet friend.
First - I LOVE your quote!!!
Its always so sad to hear of a loss - no matter the age & it does show that no one's life is assured another day - how we need to remember that!!! How we need to enjoy the day that God gave us... life it to the fullest, each moment!
We always need to be reminded of this! Thank you!
You are so right and we always need to be aware that our life is a blessing. Let's live it to the fullest.♥
Yes - tomorrow is promised to no one...have a thankful heart every day!
April, you're on the money with this post! I am SO thankful for the life that I have now... and I am even more thankful for the eternal life that I've been promised. And while I love living in the here and now, I am still longing for "home"... and I know I'll see YOU there someday, too, face to face! Blessings on this VERY rainy day in Georgia...
Thank you for stopping by my blog today and leaving your kind comment! Your Thankful Thursday post is wonderful.
Your post and comment about being unique has ministered to me today. I truly needed to hear the words from your heart.
I, too, have lost my mom. She died when I was 20.
Her passing has motivated me to know God as much as I can and let His light shine through me even more.
Yes, you are in x 6!
Good luck and thanks for such beautiful words!
.mac :)
Very nice post...wonderfully said :)
What wonderful thoughts today April. I so agree with you about appreciating life. And health.
Have a lovely day with your sweet family!
XOXO
Jen
I love your Dachsund Maddie! I just saw her picture on the side bar. I have a Dachsund myself and post lots of pics of her! Stop by and take a look :) I love her to pieces!!!
Hi April
I agree with everything you said in this beautifully written post. We must remember how lucky we are and be grateful and thankful.
Best Wishes
Lindsay
What a beautiful post, and very well written. I like your new look!
Hi April
I am thankful for life too. We take it for granted don't we?
Hugs, Rhondi
Good reminder to TREASURE life and to be grateful for our loved ones. Thank you! Thanks also for the sweet comments on my blog!
Good stuff, gal and soo true!
I am sorry to hear about your family. Your positive attitude does shine thru! :)
April,
Words well spoken!
xoxo
Jane
April, I am also thankful for my health and the health of my loved ones. Life is indeed fragile and we can all be affected by sadness and loss. We need to celebrate every day we are well and happy. Thank you for the reminder April.
Hugs...Jeanne
So sorry about Chris' friend. What a tragedy! But I'm glad to read that you are relishing each moment. It's so important. After losing so many friends and family members over the years (beginning at a young age), I came to realize how very important it is to cherish each and every day of life and to always remember to tell people you love them when you part... whether parted by sleep or leaving a friend after shopping. It's very, very important.
Speaking of which... love you, Apirl! Big Hugs...
XO,
Sheila :-)
Great post. So sorry to hear about your husband's friend. I pray that the family finds peace.
It is so true, we do see so much suffering in our blog world. It can seem overwhelming at times...but the opportunity that we have to pray is awesome. What comfort to the suffering!
I am so sorry to hear of the tragedies affecting your life right now. So young...
Lovely post.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Julie
Stated perfectly. I'm sorry to hear about this. What a tragedy! Morgan came home just tonight and told us that her classmate's father passed away suddenly last night. She said that being at school was so sad today. Girl, it's really gotten me down. Unfortunately, the dad's two teenagers are the ones that found him. Life is so precious and we just don't know how much time we're allowed here, ya know? We really should practice having more peace and having a heart of joy like all the time, huh?
Thank you for this post. I needed that reminder to be grateful for what I have. I have been really down lately and quite depressed at times. But it will get better and being thankful for what I have should help I hope.
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