Monday, January 5, 2009

All Good Things Must End

Well, my girls head back to school today after being off for the holidays since Dec. 19th. Plus, Chris flies down to New Orleans and won't be back until Thursday evening. He's been on vacation since Dec. 18th. We've had such a great time together and I hate to see it come to an end.

I definitely have a lot to get accomplished today. The house needs a good cleaning, from top to bottom. With Chris and the girls at home, I've done the bear minimum in order to have ample time to spend with them. So, now that the holidays are behind us and the decorations have been put away (actually, most of them came down on Christmas Day!), I really need to get mop the floors, dust, and clean out the bathrooms, to name a few! I hope I'm up for the challenge!

Another thing I need to do is organize the girls' closets. They have some clothes and shoes they no longer wear that I need to donate. Chris and I cleaned our closet out last week and it was so therapeutic! We took a big load to Good Will and I was so happy to get rid of everything! In fact, it was the busiest day of the year for donations, New Year's Eve.

I am definitely going to hop on the treadmill and get back into my running, and I'm going to work out with my free weights. I've not been very consistent about exercising over the holidays because we've been so busy. I'm ready to get back in the swing of things! It always makes me feel so much better!

I have two books to start reading that I got for Christmas..."The Last Lecture" by Randy Pausch and "The Lucky One" by Nicholas Sparks. It's been awhile since I've taken the time to get lost in a good book, so I'm looking forward to it!

Of course, truth be known, I'm going to miss having my girls and Chris home with me. It just seems like it's the natural place for them to be. I love it when we're all together! There's no feeling like it in the world! We've had such fun having numerous movie nights and challenging each other in games of Wii bowling and Guitar Hero. We're all competitive and we all like to win! It's been great not having to follow a tight schedule or a set routine. The girls and I have had tons of fun cooking and baking together, as well as going shopping. We've shared lots of laughs and made many new wonderful memories. For me, that's what it's all about...MEMORIES.

As much I as enjoy the opportunity to finally get some things accomplished around here and being able to actually hear myself think for a change without hearing, "Mommmm!" fifty times a day, one thing is for certain. I'm going to miss hearing the voices of those that I love echo throughout our house. The sounds of laughter, silliness, and, yes, even frustation are what make our house a HOME.

No, I've never really been one of those moms who says, "I can't wait for my kids to get back in school!" I know plenty of them who just count the days until their kids are off on their own and OUT OF THE HOUSE. Not me! I love having my girls around and I dread the day when it all comes to a screeching halt.

Sorry for my melancholy tone today, but I'm just trying to keep things REAL. Things are about to get crazy, again, with track season right around the corner, homework piling up, and Chris traveling 3-4 nights out of every week. Seems like we're always going here and there, with very little time to just be. Another opportunity like we've had these past several weeks won't roll back around until early April when the girls are on Spring Break. That's definitely something I'm looking forward to because we'll be taking our ski trip to Colorado! It can't get here soon enough!

I'm going to end this post with a song by Suzy Bogguss called "Letting Go". Oh, it's a "lump in your throat" kind of song, so get ready!






Have a wonderful Monday...thanks for allowing me to share what's on my heart!

April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

25 comments:

Lorrie said...

Good morning April--I know exactly what you mean about lovig having everybody home and being able to do things together. I still have my youngest, Kathleen home for a few more days on semester break from college. It's been so nice to have her here for a month, and because she's graduating from college and getting married in May, it's very bittersweet for me, because I know this is one of those "last times" to have her home with us this way...

Darlene said...

Hi April,

Sounds like you have had a wonderful time with everyone. We have had two weeks off and today it is back to the grind for us too. Monday's are Lexi's busy day of the week so here we go. School, jump rope (the performing team she is on) practice and dance, all on Mondays!

Shell in your Pocket said...

Good Morning, to you! I 'thought' everyone was going back but my middle child has been sick all night...sleeping on the couch right now...poor baby!

So glad you enjoyed your time together...that is sweet!What a sweet song!

-sandy toe

Sue said...

This was such a sweet post---a good way to begin a week. I always enjoyed my kids being home too. The song was awesome....I've not heard it before but it hit home....brought back memories. I still have a hard time when my son and his family leave to go back home because I know it'll be a while before I see them. I have to remind myself that that is the way God intended it. I really enjoy visiting you, April. Your family is precious.

Pam D said...

I'm right there with you, April; I have loved having my boy home with me. Dad only got to spend a couple of days "off", but it was nice when we were all home together. My boy is back in school today, and I felt a tug as I high-fived him before he walked into the building. I went into his room 10 minutes early this morning, laid on the bed next to him, and prayed over him. It was a wonderful way to start our day.
It's always a blessing to read your posts; here's hoping that you are able to accomplish everything that you need to on this rainy day in Georgia! blessings.....

Debra Kaye said...

April,

I love when you share on your heart. I hear the joy and a little bit of the melancholy but that's ok, sweet friend. It's good you let it show.

It is amazing to me sometimes this roller coaster of human emotions, but I'm so grateful for the journey that God has given us. I can hear in your words...you are too!

Blessings to you today!!

Davisix said...

Yea, back to the grind. :( I really enjoyed our time off too, and like you...have tons of house work and laundry to do. But, I am thankful for our vaca. I just need a jump start this morning. :) xoxoxo Ang

Unknown said...

Hi April,
I'm going to hit the ground with my exercise plan too!

Thanks for the book recommendations. I really like Nicholas Sparks!

Dina said...

thanks for stopping by my blog. you will love breckenridge! it is gorgeous and a completely different landscape from georgia but you will find the people just as nice! have fun!

Anonymous said...

Thanks for stopping by my blog today too AND leaving a comment. Daphine is a sweetie, huh?

Your sweet words about your family maked me smile. I love when mamas love being mamas. You sound like you are going to be busy today...you have inspired me to get busy too! :)

Have a great day!!

Anonymous said...

I just read what I wrote.... MAKES not maked! lol
I am blaming... Monday!

Lindsay-ann said...

Hi April
I hope your day is going well and you are getting your house sorted. We all were back at work and school today and it was nice to get back into a routine although like you I will miss being at home with all my family around me.
Lindsay

Anonymous said...

I can't listen to a lump in your throat kind of song today! I feel you though! Totally feel you!

Pam D said...

btw.. in looking at your profile, I see you've lived in Tennessee, Alabama, North Carolina, and Georgia. We'll have to compare notes sometime; I'm from Nashville and grew up there, then went to Mississipp to college (fairly close to the Alabama line), then moved to North Carolina for 3 years, and have been in Georgia since 1985. We may have been in the same places at or near the same time; wouldn't THAT be cool!

Daphine said...

My kind of lady...keeping things real! Thanks for sharing your heart with us today, April. With the holidays, Dirk and I were off alot too and last night, we were all a bit sad that most of our time and not being on a schedule was all coming to an end. So, I can totally relate to your post today friend!

I so want to read "The Last Lecture" too. I'll have to make a point in reading it before this year is out.

I am on my lunch break and could not bring up this video for some reason. I'll listen to it later tonight.

Have a great afternoon and may you accomplish all that you set out to do today!

Cheryl said...

Hi April, I am so glad you stopped by my post. Thank you so much for the comment. Now next let me say I love your BLOG! I gotten lost in it I truly enjoyed reading. I am having a busy day also Mista back at work today and my son first day back at school. Just finished having the carpet downstairs cleaned, now some how I wished I had waited...It's cold!! lol Have a Happy Blue Monday
Peace and Blessings
Cheryl....Snatch JOY!

Heather said...

oh April we have so much in common! i feel the same way. i love when nathan is home from work and we don't have any routines or schedules to live by. of course by the time it's over i'm happy to get back to a routine because i feel like we're spiraling out of control, lol! i too let my exercising stop over the holidays. i need to start back up right away!

Scrapper Mom said...

Sounds like from our posts, we are feeling about the same today!! I had really good intentions of starting a no carb diet..but what have I eaten today?? yep, carbs!! ha.

I think I may get on the treadmill too though. I had no idea about Bro. Martin. So that would mean Kelly is your cousin. I love reading her blog too, but I rarely comment, bc she has a ton of readers, I just get lost in the crowd. She seems really sweet. Her mom (your aunt, I suppose) stopped by my friend Chickadee's house not too long ago and brought her a gift. It really is a small world. You need to get a facebook..(would your girls just die??) It's a blast.

Thanks for the get well wishes. I guess everyone is good bc all went to school today.

Love ya!

Anonymous said...

April,

I hope you got everything done today that you needed to. I think it's great that you like having your children around. There are so many out there that are neglected. You are great Mom!

Linda said...

This post has me crying...which is pretty much what I've been doing all day.

My daughter left today to go back to school in AZ. No matter how old, you just miss them so much when they're gone. My Courtney is such a great girl, so kind and adorable...I just miss her presence in the house.

Jennifer said...

I'm with you - I love having everyone at home and am always dismayed when I hear moaning about how many more days until the kids are back in school! I suppose those children can't wait to leave either....sad, huh?

You inspired me this afternoon...I had big plans for deep cleaning as well and got sidetracked on the computer (surprise?!) and determined to finish up when I read your post! Thanks girlfriend.

Femin Susan said...

Hi April...
All good things never end..

More Than Words said...

That was such a sweet, heartfelt post, April!

I homeschool, so my kids are w/ me ALL THE TIME,but I love it and couldn't imagine me by myself all day! LOL. My husband gets home by 3:30/4, so that is also a big PLUS!

Neabear said...

Enjoy your time with the girls for sure. I really miss those days when my kids were home. Many times I wish I was back to those days. It is hard. Now my kids are 28 and 24, so there is no going back. What makes is hard is both live out of state so I rarely see them too. With finances tight, the chance to travel is few and far between.

Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional said...

I love that song! Definitely a tear-jerker.