Friday, December 12, 2008

My Reason For Doing What I Do...

Well, here I am, once again, blogging away in the wee hours of the morning. The house is dark and quiet. After I get my brain to wake up, along with the rest of me, I find that it's about the only time I can really think without having a zillion other things to accomplish.

I had one of my blogging friends comment yesterday about my being on the computer so early in the morning. The main reason I'm up is to see Brittany off to school. She's one of those sleepy heads who just can't get moving without a couple of reminders. Her alarm goes off and she hits the snooze button, and it's off to Dreamland, once again. Oh, if I only had that luxury! I keep telling her that if I accidentally should oversleep, she's going to be in a heap of trouble! Abby, on the other hand, gets up shortly after her alarm goes off. I don't have to worry about her. They are as different as night and day. Of course, Brittany wasn't always like that. It all changed when she became a TEENAGER!

I know that many of you are probably saying to yourselves that I should just sleep in and let Brittany get up on her own. Yes, you are probably right. However, call me sentimental, maybe even an emotional wreck, at times, but I don't want to miss any opportunity I have to make a memory with her. Remember...she'll be graduating from high school next year. I don't have many opportunities left.

One thing, among many, that stands out in my mind about my mom is that she was ALWAYS there for me. I vividly recall when I'd get home from school and she'd be waiting for me with a pile of chocolate chip cookies and a tall glass of milk. I'd eat and she'd sit and listen all about my day. Plus, she got up with me every morning to see me off to school. She didn't complain about it...she just did it. In her mind, she was fulfilling her role as my mother and that left an indelible impression on my heart. I've always wanted to be just like her and I miss her so very much. I try very hard to emulate her, but sometimes, I think I fall short. More than anything, I want my girls to be able to look back one day and remember the times I was there for them.

You know what's funny? When I starting writing this post, I had intentions of it going in a completely different direction than what it did. Guess my emotions got the best of me. Talking about my girls does that to me! Kleenex, someone???

So, I didn't sleep well last night. Chris got home late and said he's feeling much better, BUT, his nose is stopped up. He honked and snorted all night long! I just about went downstairs, in fact, and slept in the guest room. I do feel for him because that's so frustrating when you're trying to sleep and you can't breathe through your nose. Hopefully, it will be short-lived! I finished up a lot of my shopping yesterday (yay for me!), but my back was aching so badly from wrapping everything! I desperately needed a good night's rest...maybe we'll both have better luck tonight!

Here's a few comics that I thought you might enjoy!

Hope your weekend's a good one!

April
April

Hello, I'm April, welcome to my blog. I look at every day as an adventure and an opportunity to laugh and to learn. You will soon discover that my family and my faith are at the heart of who I am.

25 comments:

Darlene said...

Morning April,

I have to always get Lexi moving....she is a sleepyhead! I can't believe how fast time is flying and Lexi is growing up so quickly, so I know what you mean about your older daughter.

Love the little cartoons this morning.

Hopefully, you and your hubby can get some good sleep.

Keeper of the Skies Wife said...

Awww. Keep waking her up! Because like you said, You don't have many more of these moments left before she moves to college!!!

Love the comics!!!

Keeper of the Skies Wife said...

Oh and maybe hubby should get on the same meds as me....I'm almost 100% better from Wednesday!

Go take a nap today!

Lorrie said...

Good morning April. I just so appreciate these thoughts from a mother's heart. I know exactly how you feel. The moments we have with our children seem more fleeting the older they get because we know our time is growing short--once they are out of the house, it's never quite the same. You are wise to savor these everyday times.

Hope Chris is feeling better soon.

Shell in your Pocket said...

Hee hee..I love those comics..the "snow cone" is just too funny! I applaud you and you inspire me with being home for your girls. I was talking with someone a couple of weeks ago and her daughter is in junio high and get ready and leaves and noone gets up. I was so sad for her and the mom was upset b/c she closes the door to hard and it wakes her. Ugh...it goes so fast!

Now, since you are a veteran mom...I have a question for you...Lately, my son has gotten an attitude and a little mouthy...what did you do? Did you go through that with your oldest? He is 9 1/2! It's like I woke up and BOOM....I need to reign him in!
-sandy toes

Kathy said...

I'm the same way. Jackson is pretty good about getting up but even when I don't have to (like today)I still get up before him to see him off.

Neabear said...

Of course you are going to treasure those days you still have with your daughter. When she goes off to college, part of your heart goes with her. It will be hard. It still is for me. Both of my kids live out of state, one in Florida and one in Illinois. I'm in California. My kids are adults now and my son has his own family. But I still miss them very much. I miss those days when I still had them home with me. So yes, definitely treasure these days you still have with your girls.

Sandy said...

Good Morning April,
I have a snoozing teenager too so I completely understand that. And your desire to not miss a moment , I'm there too. After I left my job last year and was home everyday when then kids returned from school, I would bake them something special everyday. My hubby finally said , "slow down, or the kids will be 300lbs."! LOL. I had missed so much of that after school time that I was trying to make up for it. I'm still there for them every day and love to hear how things are going. That's the best part of being a stay at home mom! I hope your hubby gets well soon! Have a great day:)
Sandy

Heather said...

April I think what you are doing is wonderful. I never had that when i was a kid. Both of my parents worked full time so I always came home to an empty house. My wish & plan is to be able to do for Ella what I never had. Keep on doing it! You're kids are so blessed to have you for their mother.

Ruby Red Slippers said...

Loved the cartoons!! I am not one to wake up early...I don't envy you!

the voice of melody said...

You sound like such a sweet-hearted mom! Your girls are blessed, and you surely are too. :)

Unknown said...

I love your commitment to your family. Thanks for the encouragement for my situation also. Take care

2 Little Irish Boys said...

Wow! You are a great mother-early. I would be crying my eyes out everyday if my child was graduating from high school next year-it sure does go by fast. I will be there before I know it. Thanks for the comics!!

Anonymous said...

There is nothing wrong with what you are doing. I think it's great. Your children will treasure these simple things someday. You are a great mom!

Denise said...

Bless you April, you are a wonderful mom. Your children are blessed.

Unknown said...

I do the samething I thought I would be happy about them getting older and more independent but I hope it! Keeping getting!

Lindsay-ann said...

Hi April
If I did not wake Jessica on a morning she would never get up in time for school on her own. Most mornings I am dragging her out of bed. Yesterday we were running late and to my annoyance I found that my husband had accidentally taken my keys aswell as his own to work. We were locked in. Jessica's friend was ringing the bell and we couldn't open the door. Luckily I had a spare set!!!
Have an enjoyable weekend.
Lindsay

Robin Beck said...

Hi April,
I loved this post, it brought back memories. My mom was always up with us kids in the morning and ALWAYS home after school. I did the same thing-I got a snack (usually cookies mom made) and blabbed my head off to her about my day at school. One day I came home and nobody was there...I was so scared that the rapture had taken place and I didn't go!!!! When she did come home (and only 30 minutes late) I bawled my head off to her-She reassured me that if the rapture happened I would be going too! :)
Have a great weekend,
Robin~♥

Daphine said...

Girl, you're alright in my book! You're such a wonderful Mom! Your girls are truly blessed to have you.

Glad to hear that Chris is feeling better. He'e really had a time, huh?

And I am jealous that you're getting so much shopping done. I plan on finishing mine over the weekend. We'll see how it goes!

Have a great one friend!

Debra Kaye said...

April,

My Mom woke up early with me too. Partly because she had to but partly because she wanted to be with us to see us off to school. I cherished that time with her.

I pray Chris gets to feeling better soon! Hugs to you my sweet friend!

Green said...

visiting from SITS

Michelle said...

Hi April, I hope your hubby feels better soon! When I was your daughters age I wouldn't get out of bed without my mother's help either!

Anonymous said...

I am glad you get up with the kids. Why wouldn't you? I work with some moms that make their own kids in early elementary schools get up and get dressed by themselves. It kind of makes me sick : (. Your daughter will always remember these times. Where is she going to go to college?

Here is Quince's adress:
Moss Rehab at Elkins Park
Attn: DeQuince Reed
60 Township Line Road
Elkins Park, PA 19027


I know he will really appreciate it as he is so discouraged. Thank you for always being kind!

Jennifer said...

I have always gotten my children up in the morning...some mornings with a just a quick kiss and "let's go" but most of the time, there was a few minutes to tickle, or snuggle - or pillow fight :) I cherish those little moments!!

Lindsay-ann said...

April
I am having trouble e-mailing you. I am not sure if it's a problem at my end or yours. I will try again tomorrow.
I have posted our cinamon ornaments on my blog for you to see.
Hope you have had a good weekend.
Lindsay